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Ugly myths to kill
Women Lie
Shit Happens
Most people are raped by strangers
Rape isn't about sex
If she did it with me before…
No gun-no knife - no rape
She'll get over it
She's a tease
No means yes sometimes

Most people are raped by strangers

During most years, only 17% of rapes are committed by strangers. The rest are committed by friends, dates, family members, coworkers or even husbands.

55% of rapes where the rapist is a stranger get reported to the police, but only 19% of other rapes get reported at all. Only 2% of rapes were reported when the rapist was a date or a family friend.

This means that 83% of the times that a rape occurs, the rapist knew that person, maybe even laughed with her, maybe bought her dinner, maybe saw a movie, maybe talked to her on the phone, maybe thought she was flirting, maybe thought she wanted to…

In the end, it was the same. Someone used their friendship, or relationship with someone to steal their dignity, hurt them and destroy their trust forever. And most of the rapists aren’t wandering strangers drifting through town to commit some crime, they are me and you…

Some things to keep in mind:

women are at greatest risk of violence from men they know.
181 World Health Organization Fact Sheet No 239 June 2000

Almost half of sexual abuses of girls before the age of 18 are incest (by intrafamilial members).
31 (Rape Crisis Center-May 1986)

For years 1992-1993, 92% of rapes of women were committed by known assailants.
29 Greenfeld L, et al., editors. Violence by intimates: analysis of data on crimes by current or former spouses, boyfriends, and girlfriends. Bureau of Justice Statistics Factbook Washington, DC: US Department of Justice; March 1998. NCJ-167237.)


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