Most people are raped by strangers
During most years, only 17% of rapes are committed by strangers. The rest are committed by friends, dates, family members, coworkers or even husbands.
55% of rapes where the rapist is a stranger get reported to the police, but only 19% of other rapes get reported at all. Only 2% of rapes were reported when the rapist was a date or a family friend.
This means that 83% of the times that a rape occurs, the rapist knew that person, maybe even laughed with her, maybe bought her dinner, maybe saw a movie, maybe talked to her on the phone, maybe thought she was flirting, maybe thought she wanted to…
In the end, it was the same. Someone used their friendship, or relationship with someone to steal their dignity, hurt them and destroy their trust forever. And most of the rapists aren’t wandering strangers drifting through town to commit some crime, they are me and you…
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